which one to choose loser or failure

If you can not make yourself happy then you are a big loser. If you give up your dreams only because someone else don't want you should do it then you are a loser .If you are trying to work on your dreams and it does not come up to be the way you wanted then you are nota a loser you have just failed and can try again and again to achieve it. So remember the gap between loser and failure both are not same its far differed. Loser come out of regret and failure is a par of success. If your happiness is connected with your dreams then never give become some one does want you to do it .Because if you try to be happy from your pain you will bleed those pain on some one else as well. So you are going to harm yourself+ the person for whom  giving up your dreams. So  choose wisely.

The Pinch of self OR whole: What do you think how much we need for self-help ?

 Hey people,

What do you think our mind is? Is it a friend or an enemy else everything or nothing. What it is? But we often tell my mind is not mine .We even think of things that may never happen. Mind is nothing but a parasite which lives within us which acts as a dictator most of the time and even a part of our body like body organs and we try to slave it. Yes it creates an imaginary stuff which often leads to fear which leads to panic and can often leads to stress and then effects our health. So not even being part of our body it is harming us so will you like to be in such kind of dictatorship ??


HAPPINESS

The mind is so fast that it travel much faster than the light and we can not measure it even .So you can enjoy the beaches just my sitting in the bed no worries. The happiness is a part of mind when we eradicate negativity -again a part of mind. Happiness is a reward when we give up negativity. Negativity can also change your success into failure. Take an example of corporate life. You made some error in one of the task you have been given and due to which your boss yelled at you so now your mind will tell you each and every time that your boss is unhappy with you even you are there with him for a coffee break. So it is our mind which pushed us toward it s negative side of it.

Happiness is a piece of mind. Most of the time we are unhappy by looking into else's happiness. We often think we don't have money like our relative or friends. It can also be like you didn't got promoted as your collogue  and we are unhappy without thinking what they payed to get in that position. If it you worked more than that him and you didn't got promoted and you didn't get recognized  then you know  what better option you have is to search for another company or you sill want to continue working by training yourself with some new skills.

Happiness comes when we have freedom or when we love yourself and self love is absolutely 'ok'. It is  not being selfish until your self love harm others. So what do you thing. Are we slave of your mind or master?

We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.

                                  ------GAUTAM BUDDHA









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