which one to choose loser or failure
If you can not make yourself happy then you are a big loser. If you give up your dreams only because someone else don't want you should do it then you are a loser .If you are trying to work on your dreams and it does not come up to be the way you wanted then you are nota a loser you have just failed and can try again and again to achieve it. So remember the gap between loser and failure both are not same its far differed. Loser come out of regret and failure is a par of success. If your happiness is connected with your dreams then never give become some one does want you to do it .Because if you try to be happy from your pain you will bleed those pain on some one else as well. So you are going to harm yourself+ the person for whom giving up your dreams. So choose wisely.