Who is me?

Suppose is 'I' was not there in this world then did 'I' made any difference? But now when am born and if I am not there will it be different. What is the significance of death and birth. If birth is wit pain for entire life is and at eh end it is death with so many bruises all over the mind. If pain is in only part of the journey of so called life which is between birth and death then why life. Even after death no one bother's as every one forgets after a short span of time then why life .Why is this life when it is not mine when I am alive. Why this life when everyday need to face the mental pressure of what other will tell and to do because people don't want us to be the way they want. In the process of fulfilling the peoples need and dreams of there perspective we lost ourselves then why is this life. From birth to till the last day of life we are doing what everyone told us and if the problem comes then it is our fault because we didn't drive it well. Means if it is success then they get the credit and if it is failure it is our fault. Between right an wrong when did we lived our life .it was only living someone else's life. Felt the exploration and mental harassments so many bruises which one to heal. But only one things makes us keep going we need to answer the god up there when we reach in his arms the soothing, warm arms which doesn't discriminate based on anything. So we need to keep going on only one bases he sent us here in earth to try everything we want to make ourselves independent physically and mentally so keep on going we will reach the best part of journey, we will see the best part of life even our soul is torn and scratched. Because the ultimate goal is our GOD for whom we make difference. We need to gather all our tiny pieces which got shattered in the due course. Because only he gets hurt or pained with each any every small scratch in our body. So we will never give up on him(GOD).